According to the blog Advanced Life Skills:
There are certain core needs shared by every person on the planet. Some of these needs are physical such as food, water, and air. We also have emotional needs. Once our physical needs are met, filling our core emotional needs becomes our number one priority in life. The need for approval fits into this category. Whether we choose to acknowledge it or not, the desire for validation is one of the strongest motivating forces known to man (Source: http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/who-needs-approval/).
Perhaps we’re experiencing so much turmoil in the world today because we’ve all lost sight of the virtue of humility. Everyone wants to be recognized because recognition means validation. For instance, even though the views of the candidates for the office of President of the United States of both major parties have polarized the nation’s voters, there are still people who support their platforms, their attitudes or their messages. Those who do so validate the candidate’s actions, perpetuating the widening gap and fostering the alienation of most of the nation.
The same goes for sociological groups that want their views to be heard and their beliefs to be validated. Some choose violence, while some choose social media.
Where is this need for recognition fostered? In our nation’s schools and as well as in the households where parents are members of Generation X. It’s the same mentality that says “Everyone gets a trophy.” In our nation’s media, where performers are recognized as “stars.” In our nation’s society, where sports figures command multi-million dollar contracts.
Many of today’s first responders like firefighters and medical professionals as well as members of our nation’s military have been touted as the heroes of today. The word that seems to be missing from that phrase today is “unsung.” Back in the day, when sports figures like Roberto Clemente were called “heroes,” firefighters, medical professionals, and members of our military and police forces were the “unsung heroes.” They weren’t necessarily recognized with trophies, but knew what they were doing was important for the good of society. Many were humble about their accomplishments, and even avoided the spotlight.
Today, achievement in schools is celebrated; back in the day, it was expected.